You and I don't understand this but I guess it's the way it is for some people. I just read a Reddit article about a woman who is angry at her husband because he doesn't want to move away from his family. She said he was putting family before her. they have dinner ever Sunday. I would give anything to have dinner with my parents every Sunday.. They've been gone for years. My husband's family was/are toxic. So maybe I should count my blessings. Thanks for responding.