thanks for telling me your story. My son spent the weekend with his birth mother and came home to tell me not to worry that she would take my place! Half of the time I'm ready to wring his neck and the rest of the time I'm glad he's here. He will probably move out before his older brother.
My husband and oldest son work together. My son got my husband his job. I'm sure I will work through this. If I were working it wouldn't be so hard but I'm retired.