sweet story. My son was arrested twice this year. He was 19 when the arrests occurred. I'm beating myself up as his mom because I should have been more for him. I don't know what else I could have done but I should have done it. He's moved out and is living on his own now. We have helped him whenever he's asked but now, we rarely hear from him. I know that your mom would be proud of you for how you overcame your mistake.