My friend's husband died in January. Even though he was sick for a long time.. the seemed to be in denial. She is running into all kinds of issues including money that he meant for her but never designated it. He didn't even sign his car over to her. Lots of things could have been taken care of even before he got sick. It was a second marriage and they kept their money separate. My husband depends on me to do the money. I need to teach him how to do it. He needs to teach me how to take care of the pool. It's time.