I'm so sorry. To this day, my sons prefer their dad over me. It's hurtful. Why do they do this? Well, I don't take no crap! They aren't going to be disrespectful to me and they often are to their dad. I was the one who gave consequences. I put my son out of the house for few days (18) because he called his DAD an asshole! Dad did nothing! He is still rude to his dad.
I still call him out on it. He prefers his dad.
I resent my husband.