I wish you the best Misty. I have the example of my friend who enabled her child for years and now she has finally said no... she feels guilty for not saying know sooner and maybe things wouldn't have gone so far...he graduated from rehab and was made trusty... the whole thing...she has spent 10s of thousands of dollars on him... his brother won't speak to him any more...as for my neice... my sister would never say no so when she died two years ago..my niece has certainly struggled and been in shock that no one has helped her like my sister did...my niece is 42 and the friend's son is 36. My son is 19 and I'm praying none of this will happen but the odds are not good.

Bless you and your family Misty...