I think its wonderful that you had such a good experience. I could only have wished it worked out that way for us. I find one of the men completely awful when I saw him scream at his wife and she was visibly afraid. Then he told us after we announced that we were adopting that if he couldn't have his own baby he wouldn't have one at all. He said this as he sat there with his two beautiful babies and the wife that he treated like crap. Of course, they didn't last. I don't blame her for leaving. No regrets with not being his friend. He is currently divorced after his third marriage.