I realize as a writer that I still have a long way to go. However, I don't like it when someone adds stuff to my story. If I wanted it there I would have put it there myself. then there are the editors who just trash your stuff with ten or twelve suggestions. If you don't like it then just say no. It's easier on both of us. Also, I had a pub that I loved and then they changed editors. All of a sudden my stuff went from being great to being wrong. I no longer submit to them.