I know exactly how you feel. I loved my aunts and I wanted to be a great aunt. So I devoted a lot of time with my neices and nephews. One neice practically lived at my house for years and then poof. They grew up and I hardly hear from them. I don't even get a birthday card or a FB Happy Birthday. Yet I'm on speed dial when one particular neice needs money. I even took in her kids for a while. I see them at holidays but with my sister and I getting older, that may stop soon as well. It hurts my heart!