I have two things to share. My husband, brother-in-law and I made the decision to tell their cousins daughter that she was adopted. She was 35 and having health problems. Her parents wouldn't tell he the truth. She has reunited with the birth parents.

Second, my sons are adopted. My oldest doesn't want to know his bio family. My youngest does. I promised to tell him what i know when he graduates. That's in two months. It's going to be hard for me and my son's gf tells me that he is scared that he will be rejected. I'm scared that she's not in a good place.

I guess we'll find out soon.