Hey, remember when people first become Christians they tend to overboard on it then everything calms down and things are normal again. You can still be a happy couple if you both respect each other. I don't like organized church. I've been reading a series by Paul Walker who was a minister in England. I was shocked at how he was treated by the church after his wife left him. He's doing it in a series and has me hanging off the edge of my seat. There are good churches out there... I just haven't found one for me. I tend to keep my faith private. We'll see what happens with your hubby.