Geeze! My great-nephew asked if he could move in with me. My heart broke as I told him no. I am 64. The thought of what I just went through with my 19 year old makes me shudder at the thought of raising another child who will turn into a teenager. My 19 year old totaled his/my car Saturday. Thank God he walked away. Bless your heart.. I feel for you...you are going to ruin a lot of things for your kid.