Exactly! I tell every woman I know to have their own money. Money can be shared, but be aware of where it is. Have your own savings account just in your name. My sister tried to tell me that I should put my husband on my savings account. Absolutely not. And she wasn't even able to get car insurance after her divorce because everything was in her husband's name. I fired my insurance company after they refused to put my car insurance for my car in my name after I got married!